Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Spring is Teasing Us!

The whirlwind which we call life continues!! As I am teased by the sun shining outside and think the beautiful weather is here to stay, I have to wonder if I will once again be shown that Mother Nature has a mind of her own! For now though, we will soak up every possibility of time outside and believe that one day, summer will be here to stay!

John continues to amaze us and make us smile every day! He is full of stories daily about what he has done at Grandma's house and can't wait to call an aunt, uncle or grandparent on his phone and tell them about his day as well! It's quite amusing to hear the one-sided conversations that take place! He is so animated and detailed in his story-telling!

Here are some pictures for you of our last couple of months of chaos!


Happy St. Patrick's Day!




John was so tired one day after having a nap strike that he laid down in the warm laundry after I pulled it out of the dryer. Perfect place to rest!



Over spring break, Phil and I were thrilled to have extra time with John. We planned a few fun outings and otherwise enjoyed some play time at home. We went to Pump It Up in Eden Prairie and John and Daddy had a great time jumping, sliding, and going through the inflatable obstacle courses. It wasn't the perfect place for a pregnant mom, but I enjoyed watching them play together and getting a few pictures as well!






One of John's favorite parts (as well as ours) during spring break was the extended time we could spend in our jammies in the morning! One day, John helped me organize his dresser and closet for Baby's arrival, since they will be sharing a room. He climbed in his bed, made sure to bring Teddy, Cow and his baby for the fun and curled in with his blanket to help observe my organizing and keep me company! He was so cute and proud to have his friends by him, especially his baby!


I was determined I would be different than so many others who said that we'd have MANY pictures of John and some less of Baby #2 and even less for the others yet to come! I was sure that it wouldn't be like that for us.... oops!! We've already failed!! We started taking belly pictures at 14 weeks with John.... and 24.5 weeks with this baby!


We went to the MN Zoo over spring break as well and were hopeful to see the new baby animals that had just been born. We were disappointed to see only 3 baby piglets, but John enjoyed our time outside and seeing other animals as well, even if it was quite chilly! He asked to see more baby animals and we told him that maybe we'd be able to go to the State Fair again this year and see more babies there!

The sun was so bright....


So John thought he should just pull his shade down and peer out of it... what a goofball!


John has very clearly reached the "obsessed" with water stage of life!! If we are ever unsure of where he has run off to, we know to just check the kitchen or bathroom sink, since John is probably pouring or splashing in the water! This day, however, he also found the dish scrubber and thought he'd try it out! We'll just train him in household duties from an early age....


John also loves to sort things these days! He found Phil's coin container and was quite proud of the arrangements he did! He even sorted them by kind of coin at the beginning, but then there were too many and he decided to just cover the table instead!


Then he found Daddy's hat too... Oh, so much fun to be had!!





John is quite the little artist and loves to draw, color, and now paint on a daily basis! He is one who doesn't appreciate getting his hands dirty though, for the most part, so we weren't sure how finger painting was going to work! He started by using 2-3 fingers in the paint, but once they were messy and we wouldn't wash them off right away, he moved on to only using one at a time!! It was so cute! However, the more familiar he has becomes with it, the more fingers he's involved, but we're still waiting for use of his full hand while painting! He enjoyed it though and thought it was so funny that we could paint with our fingers and not use a brush!






Easter this year was even more fun than in the past, as John was very excited about the fun treats we were able to make! He was a great help in putting the Whopper eggs and M&M's on the nests we made. Of course, a few were consumed during the process, but normally our little man was so honest he would announce that he was "snitching" while he was doing it! It was so funny! We certainly had a great time making the nests, as well as the Easter basket cupcakes, even if they took three times as long to complete!



Phil, John and I went to Mass on Easter morning and while we were gone, the Easter bunny came! He knew just what John wanted and needed! John was thrilled with his new Chuggington trains, as well as the Thomas backpack (just in time since his other backpack was ripping apart!) and of course the treats were a hit too!


"Ok, Mom, take the picture fast, since there are toys to be played with!!!"


John was thrilled with his Slinky!! He now loves running through the house with it trailing behind him and he quickly figured out how to have it "walk" down the stairs!


Pure delight!!

This past weekend we had the opportunity of family time with both sides of the family while Mike and Jeanna were home from Chicago to run a half marathon in Nisswa with Katie. Sadly, Jeanna had broken her ankle in a random misstep off the stairs and wasn't able to run. The weather did not cooperate either and with temperatures in the 40's and pouring rain, Mike and Katie still ran the race and did a great job finishing!! I think I would have bailed out that morning, had I been one of the contenders! They both agreed that it was miserable to run in, but they were extremely proud to have accomplished the race!

Tim and Crystal were home from CA this past weekend as well, so it was great to see them too, since time is also so limited with their schedules. Matt was also able to get away this weekend and join everyone up north. John had his first "adventure" up north without Phil and I on Friday night, while we went to our Spring Fling fundraiser for school. We met Bob, Joan, Tim, Crystal and John in Nisswa on Saturday morning then so John could see Mike and Jeanna while they were home too. He had a great time up north and loved playing outside and being crazy with his aunts and uncles! He was so busy playing with everyone that when we called to say good night, he kept running away from the phone to get back to the fun!

Phil and I are both looking forward to the end of school on June 9. Our lives have taken another turn over the last week, as Phil had a follow-up Colonoscopy last Monday and we found out a week ago that our fears had been confirmed. Not only was Phil's Ulcerative Colitis flaring again, but he also had 4 definite precancerous portions, which means his colon needs to come out as soon as possible. After all of our hopes of remission, we are now back on the path of planning toward his surgery on May 31 and the long recovery after.

On a more exciting note though, we are 10 weeks, or less, away from meeting our new bundle of joy! I have been feeling pretty good lately, but am certainly getting more tired with each passing week, especially with the stress of work and knowing what's to come for Phil too. We are all hopeful that I won't need to be on bed rest again, as that certainly doesn't fit into the plans! Last week, I failed my first one-hour glucose test again as well, so I now get to look forward to the 3 hour test next week. I was SO hopeful I would pass this time and not have to do that awful test again!! Hopefully it comes out negative though like last time and I can have clear sailing through the end of my pregnancy!

We know this summer will be a busy and somewhat stressful one, but we will have a lot of family time at home together, resting and recouping! John is very excited about Baby's arrival and can't wait until we set up the crib! He is proving every day that he is going to be an incredible big brother as he helps around the house and has gotten to be very fond of feeding and burping his baby! We'll see what he thinks once our new addition comes home!

We wish you all the best as spring finally arrives....someday!!


Monday, March 28, 2011

Life Changes All Around...

As the sun shines in the window, we are fooled into thinking the weather outside is warm and inviting. However, once we step outside and feel the cool air, we can't help but hope for the warm spring weather to arrive sooner, rather than later!

When we think about the few months since we posted, we have had our highs and lows as a family. There were moments we didn't know if we would survive through the pure exhaustion that overcame us through sickness, a hospital stay at Children's Hospital with John, dance team, and just the daily chaos of life. However, there were also times of elation when we found out that we were going to become a family of four, celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas with our families and enjoyed the quiet, simple moments of life that can only come about with the people you love. One thing has never changed through it all; we are a family unit who makes it through the good, the bad, and the ugly, no matter what God gives us!

Just before Thanksgiving, we found out that we were going to be blessed with another addition to our family! We hoped and prayed for a healthy pregnancy and that I wouldn't feel too gross throughout it, as working full time, coaching dance and already having a 2 year-old we knew would be challenge enough while pregnant. Alas..... I didn't win that gamble! However, after being incredibly sick for a couple of weeks, a very kind nurse gave me advice not to try and be a hero, but instead take a low-dose med that would help control my all-the-time sickness so I could function like a normal human being! The meds worked wonders and after a few weeks, the nauseousness went away and I'm now 24 weeks and feeling great! I know the "I'm too big to move" feeling is around the corner, so I'm trying to enjoy this stage while it lasts!

John has been thrilled about the pregnancy and has asked several times if "baby come out and play couple minutes? Back in Mommy's tummy grow big and strong?" He knows Baby has to stay in my tummy until he or she is big and strong and then we can play with Baby. We are not finding out the gender again, since we loved the surprise element with John, as well knowing that this time, baby will arrive on or before July 13th because of our scheduled C-section. There has to be some fun and surprises in life!


Our last few months in pictures for you:

John continues to love to color and draw and is actually quite good at it! We continue to be astounded at his hand/eye coordination for only being 2 1/2!





Always such a ham! I think he gets that from his daddy, right??


Farmer/Hunter John!



John helping to mix some goodies before Thanksgiving!



So proud of his "treat" and very messy face!



Out to eat to celebrate Nana Joan's birthday in December!



When is the food going to come? So patient...


Christmas Eve! This year, we celebrate with Phil's family at our house on Christmas Eve and then celebrated with my parents on Christmas Day. We had celebrated early with my entire family the week before Christmas. We had a wonderful and extended Christmas season this year!

Patiently waiting to open his gifts! (after he opened other people's gifts for them!)




Lightning McQueen playing cards!!

John loves story time with Nana Joan!


Such a ham!



Santa came to our house while we slept and John was thrilled to see what Santa left him on Christmas morning! Santa knew exactly what John wanted!


Family picture on Christmas Day!


Christmas Day with Grandma and Grandpa!



Our 2-year-old stud!


Over New Year's, we went up north to enjoy a long weekend at Bob and Joan's. We thoroughly enjoyed relaxing and spending some time outdoors building a Mickey snowman (ears and all!), riding the snowmobile, and Phil loved his time ice fishing.







I did it!!


John loves reading stories!





John was sick a few weeks ago and fell asleep on our bed, and while he rolled over, found the remote hidden in the covers, rather than Teddy. Too cute!


Loving story time with Papa Bob in the laundry basket! This can't be as comfortable for Papa Bob as it is for John!



We had our ultrasound for Baby #2 on March 3. Baby is doing great! We saw lots of movement and watched all four chambers of the heart pumping blood. The heart rate was 148 and baby weighed in at 14 oz. At our ultrasound with John, his heart rate was 146 and he was 14 oz as well, so Phil is convinced that it's another boy. However, I'm still holding out hope for a girl! The maternal fetal medicine doctor commented that the heart rate doesn't mean anything, but that it would be one or the other and they would be 100% positive after the little one is born! We're just wanting a healthy little one, and can't wait to meet him or her in 15 weeks or less!

Baby has been moving a lot lately too, and at times, we can even see my tummy bounce around, which John has loved! Baby has also had the hiccups a lot lately, which has been funny to both feel and watch! I forgot how magical and wonderful the little movements are!

Baby's profile:


Baby's face:


Baby's little toes!


Phil's health with his Ulcerative Colitis has been up and down lately. Back on Christmas Day, he had one of the worst flares that he has ever had, which started us down the path of talking to a surgeon at the U of MN. After meeting with the surgeon in the middle of February, we were told that surgery was down the road for Phil, but wasn't necessary immediately. Because the medication didn't seem to be working any more though, they thought it would be in our future sooner, rather than later. In order to make sure that all the tests were done to give us a complete picture, they redid a few tests that had been done last fall. This time, though, a few of the biopsy results came back as indefinite for dysplasia, and because he was in a flare meant surgery right away, since they were not willing to play with a diagnosis that could be precancerous. Surgery was scheduled for April 5 and we started to prepare for the long road of recovery ahead.

On Saturday, Phil received a call from his surgeon and because his appointment last week with his specialist showed that he was no longer in a flare, they were not needing to do surgery anymore. They're not sure why his Colitis all of a sudden changed course, but they are optimistic and hopeful that he is in remission and that we have a few years (or more) before we'd have to discuss surgery again. If he flares, and medication doesn't work again, then conversations may have to go back to surgery, but we're hopeful we won't have to do that.

For now, we are thankful for the gifts God has given us and can't wait for the weather to become nicer to enjoy time outside!